If my family member touches me in a way that I do not like, should I tell?

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   GirlSmarts on Sep 18, 2012 Reply

   Yes.

   You should always tell when anyone touches you in a manner that makes you feel uncomfortable.

   If anyone ever touches you in a sexual or physical manner and you do not want them to, it is inappropriate behavior. No one has the right to touch you without your permission.

   It is natural to be scared to tell someone but it is important that you talk to a trusted adult as soon as possible. If the person who hurt you is someone in your family you can go to a teacher or a counsellor that you believe will not endanger you further. This person can help you get the assistance you need.

   If you are having pain or bleeding you may have to go to the doctor. If you think you were raped you may have to have a vaginal exam to make sure that you have no injuries. An adult you trust can also help you deal with the situation emotionally.

   There are also hot lines available for you to call, and support groups that are more than willing to accept you and listen to your story, and help in any way they can.

   For instance, 1-800-799-SAFE is the national domestic violence hotline and 1-800-656-HOPE is the national sexual assault hotline.

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